The Custody Blueprint Program

The Custody Blueprint® Program

The Custody Blueprint Program is designed to help parents who are in a custody battle with a high-conflict co-parent.

Course curriculum

1. Preparing for the Custody Blueprint Program
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2. How to Use the Resource Tools in Google Workspace
1. Module 1 Intro: Your Ideal Custody Arrangement
2. Lesson 1.2: Parenting Agreement Categories
3. TOOL: Parenting Agreement Categories Worksheet
1. Module 2 Intro: Mindset
2. TOOL: Changing Your Story
3. RESOURCE: Mental State + Trauma Recovery
4. Meditation for Empowerment
5. Tutorial: Changing Your Story Tool
1. Module 3 Intro: Mutual Concerns
2. Module 3 Lesson 2
3. TOOL: Categories of Concerns
4. TOOL: His Concerns About You
5. Tutorial: The Visitation Log
6. TOOL: Visitation Log
1. Module 4 Intro: The Basics of Documentation
2. Module 4.2: The Importance of Evidence
3. Module 4.3: Evidence That is Relevant and Compelling
4. Module 4.4: How to Use Your Evidence
5. Module 4.5 Rituals for Organizing Evidence
6. TOOL: Creating Your Mantra
7. Module 4.6: Selecting and Presenting Your Relevant Evidence
8. TEMPLATE: Infant/Baby Daily Logs
9. TEMPLATE: Timeline of Disturbing Behavior
10. TEMPLATE: 4 Top Concerns
11. Module 4.7: Creating Your Packet of Evidence Digitally
12. RESOURCE How to Transfer & Back up Text Messages (SMS) to Your Mac or PC
13. Module 4.8: Putting it All Together to Give to the Evaluator
14. BONUS LESSON: Dealing with Overwhelm
15. BONUS MATERIAL: How to look at recordings
16. BONUS: Workshop with Jessica - What a Final Body of Evidence Can Look Like
17. BONUS: Evidence MASTER Class | An Alternative to the TODB
1. Module 5 Intro: Communication
2. Module 5 Lesson 2
3. Module 5 Lesson 3
4. Module 5 Lesson 4
5. TOOL: Sample Email Responses
6. TOOL: Email Writing Practice
7. QOTW: How to stick to email when your co-parent calls or texts instead?
8. RESOURCE: Top Parenting Portals
1. Module 6 Intro: The Custody Evaluation
2. Module 6.2: Preparing for the Process
3. TOOL: Intake/Questionnaire Practice Form
4. RESOURCE: Prep for Evaluation/Home Visit
5. TOOL: Top Concerns with Patterns of Evidence
6. WORKSHEET: Personal Strengths and Weaknesses
7. TEMPLATE: Binder Categories Cover Page
8. TOOL: Collateral Witnesses
9. TEMPLATE: Binder TOC/Index
10. Module 6.3: Your Practice Interview Sessions
11. TOOL: Mock Interview Questions
12. TEMPLATE: List of Collateral Witnesses
13. Campbell's Danger Assessment 2019
1. Module 7 Intro: Negotiating an Agreement
2. Lesson 7.2: Best Practices for Negotiation
3. Lesson 7.3: The Settlement Proposal/Agreement
4. TEMPLATE: Negotiating Preferences for Lawyers
5. TEMPLATE: Settlement/Parenting Proposal
6. RESOURCE: Mediation/Settlement Conference Tips & Techniques
1. Module 8 Intro: Relationships with Court Professionals
2. Module 8.2: Guardian ad Litem
3. EXAMPLE: Initial Email for GALs (Child's Lawyer, AFC, Minor's Counsel, etc.)
4. TEMPLATE: GAL Biweekly Update Correspondence
5. Module 8.3: Your Lawyer
6. EXAMPLE: Court Appearance Talking Points (for Lawyer) - TABLE FORM
7. USER GUIDE: Court Appearance Talking Points TABLE FORM
8. TEMPLATE: Court Appearance Talking Points (for Lawyer) - TABLE FORM
9. Module 8.4: CPS
10. TEMPLATE: Weekly Updates to Lawyer
1. Module 9 Intro: Bringing it All Together
2. Module 9.2: Succeeding at the Court Appearances
3. Module 9.3: What IS the Blueprint, anyway?
4. Module 9.4: Using Your Blueprint
5. Module 9.5: Throughout your Custody Case
6. 50/50 Custody: Studies, Articles, Arguments For and Against
7. Study on the Effectiveness of Joint Custody (Page 12 indicates it does not work in high-conflict situations)
8. Module 9.6: Having a Narcissist as a Co-parent
9. TEMPLATE (Hearing/Trial) | Allegations & Responses
10. TEMPLATE EXAMPLE (Hearing/Trial) | Allegations & Responses
1. TOOL: Evidence Grid
2. TOOL: The Four Friends You Need
3. USER GUIDE: EXAMPLE: Writing a Narrative, Statement, Declaration, Summary, etc.
4. Writing a Narrative, Statement, Declaration, Summary, etc.
5. USER GUIDE: Points for Petitions for Custody
6. TOOL: Points for Petition for Custody
7. Depositions: What to Expect
8. RESOURCE: Steroid/Drug Use and Child Custody
9. Lifetime Spiral of Gender Violence
10. Immigrant & Refugee Power and Control Wheel
11. TEMPLATE: Relocation Comparison
12. USER GUIDE: Relocation Comparison
13. Dettwyler's Breastfeeding Open Letter to the Court
14. Identifying Economic Abuse
15. Personal Financial Safety Plan Checklist
16. Workplace Safety Plan
17. Financial Fears Checklist.docx
18. Personal Budget Form
19. EXAMPLE: Parenting Time by the Numbers
20. When Parents should introduce new partners to their kids?
21. What abusers say about their use of intimate partner strangulation
22. Shared Physical Custody: Summary of 40 Studies on Outcomes for Children
1. BMCC Conference: ACEs - What They Are and How to Overcome Them (Kate Spearman)
2. BMCC Conference: ACEs - What They Are and How to Overcome Them (Kate Spearman)
1. RESOURCE: 50-50 Shared Custody Studies
2. The Science of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)

About this course

$1,497.00
106 lessons
16 hours of video content

The Custody Blueprint® Program

Course curriculum

Module 0 | Becoming a Noble Warrior

Module 1 | The Warrior's Endgame

Module 2 | The Warrior's Armor

Module 3 | The Warrior's Adversary

Module 4 | The Warrior's Arsenal

Module 5 | The Warrior's Defense

Module 6 | The Warrior's Most Important Battle

Module 7 | The Warrior's Art

Module 8: The Warrior's Discipline

Module 9 | The Victorious Warrior

BONUS MATERIALS

Domestic Violence Resources

Bonus Materials: Domestic Advocacy

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